A week of highs and then smack the low hits

Conversation opened. 1 unread message. Skip to contentUsing Gmail with screen readers Search A week of highs and the smack the low hits It has been a week ending on a very sour note. Having been a firefighter, I have learned to compartmentalize things to do those things needed to save a life or property. […]


This is a tough post to make, but I feel it is essential as it shows how I care for babygirl in both her physical and emotional senses. Over the time we have spent together, I have learned much about her. One such fact was she had a very traumatic experience a year ago, and […]

Rituals aka A Form of Communication

I have found that rituals are an important part of the BDSM experience. According to Merriam-Webster, it can be defined as “an act or series of acts regularly repeated in a set precise manner.”. Rituals set up a standard structure and help to keep everything familiar. Straying from them can lead to the submissive feeling […]

What kind of Dom am I?

There are many types of Doms in the lifestyle. In one of my earlier chat sessions with babygirl, she called me a soft Dom. At first, I was a little put off by that comment as my view of a Dom was a tough persona and tended to lean towards being a true sadist. I […]

Introducing babygirl

The journey centers around babygirl, for without her, it would not have happened. Thus I felt it appropriate to introduce her at this point, so there is context to the blog. The connection or chemistry between a Dom and a submissive allows your time together to evoke more passion. I will be posting on that […]

The journey begins…

When I was a teenager, BDSM wasn’t a known word or phrase. It was S&M (Sadism & Masochism)and in those days was considered extremely taboo and typically associated with whips and chains. At this time I was a short somewhat introverted redhead with a speech impediment. This led to me being somewhat socially introverted unless […]