DD/lg – A most amazing experience

This past year has been an amazing and wonderful year for babygirl and me. It has been beyond any expectations I could have imagined. Granted, the “Great Disconnect” was rough on us, but we learned about our resilience and communication’s importance in any relationship.  For those in this lifestyle, you understand what DD/lg means. Others […]

The Primal Side and the Disconnect

The last couple of weeks on vacation have been an emotional rollercoaster for babygirl and me. Before I delve into that, I would like to add a little background on my side for a better perspective on this post and the prior blog postings. I am married to a very conservative vanilla woman who does […]

It’s so Stupid

This incredible connection I have with babygirl has a vital component wrapped around communication. I communicate with babygirl on levels I have never shared with anyone before, and it is so natural and fluid. One aspect allowing this is our texting as we share our day. This connection is so unique on so many levels. […]

D/s, The Power Exchange

In life, there are five types of power exchange. Equals Male led Vanilla Female led Vanilla Dominant/submissive Master/slave In short: Equals – is a typical exchange these days where both share equally in the day’s decisions. It gives the impression that they share equally in everything. It can shift both ways as the couple’s needs […]